dating advice for gay men

When it comes to truth in advertising, it's one thing to shave a couple of years off. Or you're miserable because there's no prospect on the horizon. There are many gay men who are masculine and their sexual orientation is not readily obvious. Goodness is essential, but allowing yourself to be as mysterious and alluring like a vampire will go a long way. There is likely going to be problems with compatibility. Some of these red flags are obvious.

Popular Today, cocktails and Cocktalk: A Funny Relatable Blog on Gay Dating Gossip. Don't settle for anything less than chemistry, shared values/lifestyle/goals, trust, and a growing and abiding friendship. When we see a guy who is physically in shape, we tend to associate him with a host of other positive traits (even if it doesnt apply)its called the halo effect. Psychological studies have reinforced previous research showing that narcissists are more popular than others at first impression. Other under this red flag: He wants you to get high with him He talks a lot about how much he "parties" or "parTays". Same holds true if he shows up at your first date stoned. Too many get hooked on the look and find themselves in impossible, painful, one-sided and one way relationships. Dating is supposed to be fun. He tells you he wants a serious relationship (remember, he just broke up). Bette Davis used to say, "Getting older ain't for sissies.". With all the focus on marriage equality these days, it's easy for gay men to think that being single and happy is an oxymoron. Everyone is looking to get off or to get in that we forget how to connect on intimate levels, much less genuine ones.